From the south, you'll either be coming up Interstate 91, or — if staying in Brattleboro — be on U.S. 5 (Putney Road), or — if coming from southern New Hampshire — be taking New Hampsire 9 west to Vermont 9. Interstate Exit 3 (the third Brattleboro exit) and Vermont 9 both join U.S. 5 at a traffic circle in the midst of the motel district of Brattleboro. From the circle, go north on U.S. 5 about a mile and a half to where you'll see a sign on the right for Dummerston Center, pointing to a road forking to the left.

Following that sign, you'll be on Middle Road. In about two miles, on the left, will be Dutton Farm Road.

Turn left onto it, and go for about a half a mile. There will be a sign on the left where you'll turn into the apple orchard, and proceed to the parking area there.

To get to the Reception after the ceremony you'll drive back to Middle Road, turn right, and take the next right in about a quarter mile onto Kipling Road.